RIP Roberta Anne Drury - Funeral Mass of the Youngest Catholic Victim of the Buffalo Shooting

Roberta Anne "Robbie" Drury died at the shooting in Buffalo, NY, on May 14, 2022. She was the youngest of the victims, during the shooting at the  Tops supermarket that killed 10 people. Her funeral was held at Assumption Church on May 21, 2022 in Syracuse, New York. Drury, who was 32, was at the market to pick up groceries for her mother. 18-year-old Payton Gendron is accused of this mass shooting which is being investigated as a racially motivated hate crime.

During the funeral homily, the Franciscan priest, Fr. Nicholas Spano, OFM explained that the call to forgiveness was found in the words of Martin Luther King Junior who said; ‘forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a permanent attitude.’” He said, “For us to remember is not only to keep alive but to make present. We enter into this mystery … every time we celebrate the Eucharist.” “It's in the Eucharist that we see the power of memory,” he said. “When we celebrate the Lord's meal, and we do it in memory of him, we make present the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus in our midst, the entire Paschal Mystery at once,” he said.


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Roberta Drury grew up in Cicero, NY.  For the past ten years she lived in Buffalo, NY tending to her brother who is recovering from a battle with leukemia. Roberta will be missed by many, her heart was so big, everyone was in her family. She made sure every single person in the room was having a great time, ready to laugh and hug at a moment's notice. She is survived by her mother, Leslie (Richard) VanGiesen and father, Philip (Jeanie) Drury; grandfather, John Traeger; siblings, Christopher (Theia) Moyer, Daniel (Ashly) Moyer, Amanda (Steve) Drury, Nicole VanGiesen, Brett (Kimberlyn) VanGiesen. 
The parish website wrote: 
We come together as a community to mourn the loss of Roberta Anne Drury with her family. As we trust in God’s great mercy, we join in spirit with all of those affected by this brutal act of violence. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Assumption Church on Saturday, May 21 at 10:00 AM and will be available via livestream for those who cannot attend. We ask you to join us as we pray for Roberta, her family, and for the community affected by this tragedy. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted - Psalm 34

Statement of Bishop Douglas J. Lucia Buffalo shootings

Re: Buffalo shootings
May 20, 2022

Last Saturday, racist and horrifying violence took the lives of ten people in Buffalo who were just trying to make a living for their families or to get some shopping errands done. It injured three other persons as well, along with traumatizing many more. The trauma extends to the Diocese of Syracuse where this Saturday a Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Assumption Church for one of our own parishioners and a victim of the shooting, Ms. Roberta A. Drury. Our hearts and deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Roberta’s family and friends, as well as, to all the victims’ families and loved ones. We hold close in prayer also all those who were injured and all those who witnessed and are affected by such unconscionable violence.

As a local church, we are deeply disturbed also that the alleged perpetrator of this heinous crime is an 18-year-old from the Southern Tier of our diocese. Where from or wherein is such hatred and violence being brought forth as to export such unconceivable crimes against the sacredness of the human person no matter gender, color, or creed?

I wish to remind all Catholics of the grave sin that racism is and the ever present need to eradicate from both our society and nation. In 2020, the US Catholic Bishops issued the document, “Open Wide Our Hearts: The Enduring Call to Love – A Pastoral Letter Against Racism.” In it the bishops reiterated the Church’s teaching on racism: “Racism is evil because it attacks the inherent dignity of the human person, created in the image and likeness of God. The persistence of racism demands our attention now. Racism emerges in the actions and inactions of individuals; and it is embedded in our institutions and public policies. Our faith calls us both to personal conversion and to transformation of our society.”

The events of last Saturday in Buffalo which could have been easily exported to other places according to news reports, highlights the great urgency and need that can no longer wait in addressing both structural racism and prejudices to be found not only in American society, but even more sadly in Church communities. This past Sunday in many Christian churches, the gospel reading was John 13:31-35 in which Jesus gives to his disciples a new commandment: “love one another” (Jn 13:34). It concludes with Jesus saying: “This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (Jn 13:35).

As I asked at the end of my homily on Sunday: “Where in your life…where in my life…is God asking us to love with more intention?” I ask those who read these words to take this question to heart; so that together we can eradicate any racism, prejudice, and racial discrimination from our church communities, but even more from the nation that claims to be “one nation under God.”

Let us not forget that in God “all find their home” (Ps 87) and that everyone belongs!


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